Hi, I'm Rachel.
If you're new here, let me introduce myself and the podcast.
I'm a life coach and teacher helping women to have a deeper trust in their hungers — both at and away from the table. In college, like so many women, I had an eating disorder and through my recovery, I discovered Health at Every Size, fat activism, and Intuitive Eating. All that means is I stopped believing in the idea that humans need to fit into a certain size, that our size is a determinant of our well-being, that our well-being is just about our physical self, that entire systems and industries exist to profit from making us spend our lives obsessing over food and our bodies, and most importantly, we can actually trust our bodies to figure out what to weigh and what to eat.
In late 2017 my husband and I discovered that we were pregnant with our first child and I found myself with a new question: why are the only times we celebrate the belly when it belongs to a chubby baby, an adult with six-pack abs, or a thinner-bodied pregnant woman?
Even before my belly began to expand I was aware that I was likely facing two common rights of passages in our culture: the celebration of my pregnant belly and the shaming of my postpartum belly. Something about this didn't add up and it got me thinking about the broad range of experiences women have with their bellies throughout their lives in a body (and belly)-toxic world.
So I set out to have a series of conversations with wise women about their bellies and how we all might find greater ease at the center of it all. These conversations make up The Belly Love podcast.
This is a capsule podcast—just 10 episodes start to finish.
In no way could these episodes capture every belly perspective or topic but I did try to offer a range and hopefully you find something that helps you on your journey.
In addition to the podcast, I've created a powerful Belly Love guided meditation and digital workbook to support listeners in going deeper and exploring their own personal belly journeys. Both are available at the bottom of this page. Check them out!
The Episodes
Episode 1
Belly Activism and the War on Stomachs with fat activist Marilyn Wann
In this episode legendary fat activist Marilyn Wann joins me to talk about:
Fat (belly) activism
Taking down weight hierarchies
The problems with stomach amputation (a.k.a. gastric bypass surgery)
Marilyn Wann's website
Fat?So!
Episode 2
My Belly Journey and How I'm Preparing for Postpartum Body Changes
In this episode, I share my own belly journey and what practices were supportive during my pregnancy and in preparing for postpartum belly changes.
Episode 3
Belly Acceptance and Joyful Movement with Melissa Toler
In this episode speaker, writer, and educator Melissa Toler and I talk about:
Reclaiming movement and fitness from diet culture
What the flat stomach ideal represents
Redefining health beyond weight or muscle tone
The non-linear path of body (and belly) acceptance and giving up dieting
Melissa Toler's website
Episode 4
When Fat Bellies Get Mistaken for Pregnant Bellies with Hilary Kinavey
In this episode licensed professional counselor and co-founder of Be Nourished Hilary Kinavey joins me to talk about:
How bellies are pathologized
Connecting (or not) to our belly through our family lineage
Being with the unknown of how your body will change
What to do when someone mistakes your fat belly for a pregnant belly
How small-bellied allies can support bigger-bellied humans
Be Nourished's website
Hilary's article On Being Asked If You Are Pregnant
Episode 5
Living with (and Dressing) a Fat Belly in a Belly Judging World with Jes Baker
In this episode body liberation author and speaker Jes Baker joins me to talk about:
Making bellies visible in plus-size fashion
Dressing with a Visible Belly Outline (VBO)
Dealing with body judgment from other people
The difference between body positivity and body liberation
The inherent vulnerability of our bellies
Jes Baker's Website
Jes's Books:
Landwhale: On Turning Insults Into Nicknames, Why Body Image Is Hard, and How Diets Can Kiss My Ass
Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls: A Handbook for Unapologetic Living
Episode 6
Belly Dancing, Embodiment, and Menopause with Bronwyn Simons
In this episode artist, astrologer, writer, belly dancer and co-founder of the Vivid Menopause Program Bronwyn Simons joins me to talk about:
Belly embodiment and living from the inside out (rather than the outside in)
The healing power of belly dancing and other movement practices
Redefining what it means to feel sexy and sensual in our body
Practical tips for navigating belly and body changes in menopause
Bronwyn Simons's Website
Episode 7
Diastasis Recti and Belly Acceptance with Ariana Pritchett
In this episode strategist and mom Ariana joins me to talk about:
What diastasis recti is
How to navigate recovery from diastasis recti -- especially when the medical community fails you
The importance of talking about pregnancy and birth-related body trauma
Follow Ariana on Instagram
Flight Design Co. Website
Episode 8
Menopause and Belly Fat with Dr. Margo Maine
In this episode, clinical psychologist and eating disorder specialist Dr. Margo Maine joins me to talk about:
How our culture's toxic focus on women's bellies is really about disempowerment
Why women's belly fat actually isn't "the worst kind of fat"
The health-supporting reasons behind gaining belly fat in menopause
Margo Maine's Website
Margo's Books:
Body Wars: Making Peace with Women's Bodies
The Body Myth: Adult Women and the Pressure to be Perfect
Pursuing Perfection: Eating Disorders, Body Myths, and Women at Midlife and Beyond
Episode 9
Postpartum Belly Changes and Eating Disorder Recovery with Carla Korn
In this episode, psychotherapist and eating disorder specialist Carla Korn joins me to talk about:
Going through pregnancy and postpartum when you've recovered from an eating disorder
Postpartum belly changes and shame
The non-linear path of body acceptance
Practical tips for working with critical body thoughts
Carla Korn's Website
Episode 10
Making Belly Peace and Embodying the Divine with Ivy Felicia
In this episode body relationship coach Ivy Felicia joins me to talk about:
Making peace with your belly (even if you don't love it)
The myth that black women don't struggle with poor body image
How a connection to the divine can help on the journey to body acceptance
How to navigate anger and body-blame when you have a chronic illness
Ivy Felicia's Website
What's next on your belly journey?
I imagine that after listening to even just one of the Belly Love podcast episodes you might be left swirling with questions and thoughts about your own relationship to your belly.
So as not to leave you hanging I have prepared these two next steps to support you in digging a bit deeper: a digital workbook and a guided meditation. In tandem, these resources give you a safe container to have a look around your past, present, and future belly experience.
Inside the digital workbook, you'll receive:
Advice from experts on topics such as how to move towards belly acceptance, how to grieve the belly you used to (or never) have, what's worked for them in making peace with their bellies, how to move past sticky old belly stories, and more.
LOTS of powerful writing and multimedia exercises facilitate your belly exploration, healing, and active learning.
A robust resource list of belly loving articles to read and experts to follow
The guided meditation is 15-minutes long and provides a safe container to drop into your real lived experience of your belly with presence and curiosity. The meditation is designed to be practiced
The Belly Love podcast episodes are free and the digital workbook and meditation bundle are available to purchase for $25.